The Exposer- Exposing Online Predators Who Prey on Vulnerable Adults- Expose Yours: EXPOSER@37.COM

  theexposer 

Give yourself a chance to see through them.  It helps to put two and two together to look at the reality and not the facade.

We are entitled to go through stages of our pain while trying to cope and recover. This process gets delayed due to re-victimization.  A good example would be the reactions and rage from narcissistic predators, emotional rapists and spiritual vampires can cause a survivor to experience trauma again only this time in another form depending on the route of attack the predator takes to hurt their victim.

It is still be necessary to tell the truth about the person who continues to hurt others and lie, cheat and steal lives from people.  In fact, it is your duty.  This is not revenge but an important step in healing, receiving validation and making sure the predator and his future victims get help, if possible.

No matter how hard the victimizer tries to cover up, hide, threaten, accuse, etc....  all the lashing out in the world isn't going to make them right or their lies into truth. They can manipulate all the people in their path, but the truth will always be the truth and sooner or later their lies will catch up to them.  Even when a narcissistic predator believes his own lies, he can't escape the consequences somewhere down the line.

Finding out the truth is devastating, but it is necessary.   How they react to you finding out confirms that truth even more. It makes the a deal breaker.

If you can't get just how unfeeling and inhuman they are,  or realize just how detached they are from any remorse or empathy check out the seduction science techniques mentioned in previous posts.  It is sickening to evaluate the coercive & exploitative content of communication between these absolute volatile creatures of predation.

This is what they are underneath.  They fake the 'friendship' they sucked you into when you needed a friend the most.  Predators hunt the wounded, and like any predator they preyed on you at your most vulnerable.

Here's a symbolic illustration for those who may not quite see it clearly yet...

On a back porch in the evenings right before Fall, at the same time every night, swarms of mesquites start to circle around  while trying to stay hidden at the same time. Before you know it you 've been bit  more than once without realizing it and you now feel the sting. They are out to feed and they know how to get away with it.

It drives and feeds these remorseless, emotional predators more to believe they can do whatever they want.  Expose their game and they will try to destroy you without a care in the world.  Whether you have children or not.  Whether you are innocent or even bedridden. They can only see themselves and what they want. No one else counts.  Their narcissistic rage will kick in and attack anyone or anything that gets in their way.

They will even hide behind their own children for sympathy with an "upstanding family man" facade to those who might start seeing through them.  Their children will act as though they hung the moon because they thirst for their time.  This is because they only get crumbs of the predator parent's attention anyway.

It is basically like finding out you were conned by a programmed robot or eaten by a killing machine like a shark, and nothing else.

Before you know it - they are off for their next meal... their next fix.