The Exposer- Exposing Online Predators Who Prey on Vulnerable Adults- Expose Yours: EXPOSER@37.COM

from Kristen Rhoad's Site on her Ex-Husband
 

ONGOING BATTLES: "TAKE DOWN YOUR BLOG OR I'LL SUE YOU!"

Well, Haberman has been acting out of desperation or stupidity. Can't tell which one he's actually using.

Haberman contacted a few people that are owners of other Blogs that carry his story. He sent the following threatening e-mail:

From: "phil.haberman@us.army.mil" To: XXXXXXX
Sent: Wednesday, March 7, 2007 8:22:07 AM
Subject: Court Order To Remove Content

Are you aware that you are in violation of a court order by posting reference to myself and my ew wife on your homepage? I need a fax number to send you that court order to have all aritcles removed so she is in compliance with said order. I also need your address to mail you a hard certified copy of the court order. Those who are assisting her are going to have aiding in the commission of a felony charged to them as well.

§784.048 Stalking; definitions; penalties. 1997. Amended 2003

(4) Any person who, after an injunction for protection against repeat violence or dating violence pursuant to s. 784.046, or an injunction for protection against domestic violence pursuant to s. 741.30, or after any other court-imposed prohibition of conduct toward the subject person or that person's property, knowingly, willfully, maliciously, and repeatedly follows, harasses, or cyberstalks another person commits the offense of aggravated stalking, a felony of the third degree, punishable as provided in s. 775.082, s. 775.083, or s. 775.084.

As you see above, you are clearly aiding in the commission of a felony, and I dont think you want to have the civil or criminial reprocussions as a result of that action. I also find it interesting how I ended up on YOUR site when I was only married to her. It seems that those she has manipulated into believing her grand tales take ONLY her side and have not once spoken to me.

Again, I hope you will remove all references immediately to avoid any legal issues that will arise if failure to do so results.

Phil

Google (Blogger.com, Blog.com and Yahoo(including my Rhoadwarrior2002 e-mail address) all received the same e-mail. Which they all complied with Haberman's illegal request to remove my Blogs and my e-mail address I've had since 2002. I've requested the documents they said they received from Haberman, but I have not received them as of this date. Haberman might have altered them given his previous antics with forged military documents.

Thanks and Support

>From: "XXXXX"
>To: kristenrhoad@hotmail.com
>Subject: your ongoing fight
>Date: Tue, 03 Apr 2007 16:24:24 +1000
>
>Hi My name is Jim I live in Sydney australia, i just spent the past  2 hours reading about your ongoing fight to bring some justice  regarding this waste of space Haberman, I applaude your tenacity and  perserverence in bringing this to the attention of authorities  everywhere, and i do hope to see some justice prevail in the near  future, you are a strong willed dedicated human being that deserves  the support of all good minded people, you are credit to your  country, and if there were any way i could help you I would be happy  to, once again well done and dont give up the fight.

>best regards Jim XXXXX
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From: XXXX
>Date: 3/8/2007 9:37:26 PM
>To: XXX
>Subject: Re: Fw: Court Order To Remove Content
>
>It should be noted that although the sender identified an account on army mil as his From and Reply-To address, his message to us originated from the AOL network.

>Mr. Haberman has been buoyed and emboldened by his recent success conning the court and an uninformed and over-reaching judge. Mr. Haberman's interpretation of any court order in his possession to mean every individual or entity anywhere is barred from publishing or discussing him or the demonstrated menace he poses to an unwary public speaks loudly to his ignorance of law as well as his malformed audacity and sense of entitlement to deceive and do harm to others without consequence.
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We can reasonably conclude that he used his ID to gain entry to the base and use the Call Center. Con-artist that he is, it probably was his intention to create the impression that he is at Huachuca in some official capacity.

If he actually wormed his way into a Reserve unit (not hard to imagine) that has been sent to Huachuca for trng or other reason, then the Army has serious personnel issues that need to be examined.

This clown's belief that he has a universal court order is hilarious in a pathetic way.
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MYSPACE Hunting Grounds!

CYBERSTALKER PHIL

Haberman still is using "ScubaPhil" listed on MySpace for his hunting grounds. BEWARE!
If you are a female, between the ages of 25 and 45, a single parent, successful in business, or have something that Haberman wants - STAY AWAY FROM HIM! Recent postings suggest that Haberman is using women of professional, county and governmental careers such as banks (BofA), mortgage companies, police personnel, travel agents, flight attendants, etc. for his own personal gains.

Other Dating Profiles:As of November 22, 2006 Phil is listed on Military Singles.com as OceanLuvnGuy. How do I know this? PHIL contacted me and another woman and sent us his dating profile!

"Damn, I can't believe I fell for that sh*t." - Bonny B.

YAHOO.COM

Profile: March 2004
Name: Phil IM 32 SO DONT ASK ME ASL. YOU WILL BE IGNORED
Location: Las Vegas, but Camp Pendleton, Ca ( Oceanside , San Diego ) very often with work. Originally from Dallas, Texas= Go back to Key West a lot, which is my adopted home. Currently at Ft Bragg getting ready to leave for Iraq
Gender: Male
Marital Status: Single -- Want to fix that one?
Hobbies & Interests: SCUBA Diving, Spearfishing,Skydiving, Marathons,Bungee Jumping, BASE Jumping, Racing Offshore Powerboats, Adrenaline Junkie......ANYTHING ON THE EDGE!! I am also a nightclub DJ
Favorite Gadgets: Night Vision and things that go BOOM are tools of the trade. Also my Mustang Cobra.
Occupation: Former US Marine/ Divemaster/Personal Trainer/ In-Water Trauma Medic-APBA & SBI. Currently with US Army Special Forces.
Personal Quote: Pain is just a sign of weakness leaving the body--USMC
FOR THE 343 BROTHERS THAT DID NOT COME HOME SEPT 11 AND ARE STILL ANSWERING THAT CALL,ALONG WITH THE NUT HOUSE CREW OF E214 AND L111, ILL NEVER FORGET YOU GUYS! THANKS FOR THE MEMORIES!!!!!!!!!!!

April 23, 2006, oceanluvnguy profile on MySpace.com (since deleted)

Im in NC at Ft Bragg now after being hurt in Iraq. I normally dual residence between Key West, FL and Las Vegas. Then I got stuck in Fayettehell. I really don't like it here at all. It is a very lonely and decrepit place. So I stay in and really don't have anyone to do anything with. So I am pretty much relegated to sitting at home alone with my dog Jake. I'd love to have someone to do things with. Im not a drinker or a partier, and unlike most of the guys in this town, I don't sleep with anything that moves. Im single and very selective about whom I spend time with. I have been called "too good to be true," "too nice of a person", and the famous "like the big brother I never had." Why can't I finally be called the person that someone has waited their whole life to meet? I lost my fiancee to breast cancer in July 2000, and value life and what it has to offer. I can be found all over the place at any given time. I just came off active duty, and now work with State and Federal law Enforcement agencies providing tactical underwater search and rescue solutions to their dive teams. I also work with military Special Operations units and their dive teams. Im still in the reserves. In the past I have done a lot of things. I spent 3 years working on a very well known TV series in California, and I did 3 SAG feature films as well. Ive been lucky to work with animals of all kinds, as you can see by my pics. My need for speed has been fed many times from freefalling through the sky to driving an Indy car at almost 200mph. I love to travel, and would LOVE to have a travel partner in crime. Im always happy to have new friends, as you can't have too many. If you are still reading then you are hopefully intrigued. I'd love to hear from those of you that would like new friends. I just want to finally be happy in my life again. IS ANYONE WILLING TO TAKE A CHANCE ON A NICE GUY?!?!?!?!??-Take a chance? Are you kidding? Not again if my life depended on it!

MATCH & Military Singles

April 14, 2004
"Guaranteed Laughter And I Dont Have To Take Off My Clothes To Do It!!
!!!!!!!!!! IM IN IRAQ CURRENTLY!!!"
I am a:32 yr old man
located in:Fort Bragg, North Carolina, United States
looking for: Dating: 18 to 42-year old woman
Friends: 18 to 42-year old men and women
within 5000 miles of Fort Bragg, North Carolina, United States
relationships:Committed relationships but never married (I married Phil 01/10/04)
my ethnicity:White / Caucasian
body type:Athletic and toned
height:5’ 8” (172.7 cms)
sense of humor:Clever: Nothing’s better than a quick-witted comeback
sign:Capricorn

About me and who I'd like to date:
Hey there everyone!!! I guess from the fact that you are here reading my profile, you must like to laugh and have a good time. I am originally from Dallas, Texas, and I have been all over the US and Canada with work over the past 14 years. Ive joined the US Marines in November 1989, and have loved every minute of it. Due to a diving accident in Key West in 1998, in which I almost lost my life, I was forced to leave the Marines. Im with Army Special Forces now ,and I love what I do in my line of work. if you want a foo-foo kind of guy that will watch chick-flicks all the time and go shopping at all your favorite stores 4 days a week........IM NOT IT!! I am a very athletic, adventurous person. I have been deemed an "Adrenaline Junkie," and will do anything I can to catch the rush. I have,in the past 14 years, experienced the "been there, done that" aspect of life, and now want to settle down with that one person. She needs to be quick witted, confident, not insecure, and ready to have a good time 24/7. In return, I offer humor, wit, and a great personality to go with it. She needs to be comfortable in shorts and a t-shirt, as well as enjoy dressing up in skirts and heels if we want to go out. I have been told sometimes that I speak before I think, but I am just saying what is on my mind, which I am not afraid to do. I am very spontaneous, and very funny. I can turn anything you say into a joke, and my humor and wit has caused me to get in trouble on more than one occasion. I also can take something you say and turn it into a sexual innuendo. If that bothers you, then I can tell you now.....I am not the one for you. I am hoping to get married and settle down before my bones turn to dust, and I never thought I would be doing this to attempt to get there. I love kids, and was a cast member for Disney seasonally in Orlando doing characters and voices. I never thought I would put an ad on here though.I also LOVE sushi and the ocean!!! I hope to hear from you soon...!!! I am hoping to find someone who can keep up with me. i cook, clean, and the best part.....I can make you laugh without taking off my clothes to do it. I want to find a feminine woman, who can also be comfortable in shorts and a tshirt as well.I love to travel, and I can be found all over the place any given weekend, and want someone that is willing to see new places. I am hoping that the person I find will like to be treated like a lady, but not expect the world to revolve around her. I like a woman in dresses and heels , and who takes care of herself. But I want someone that can relax and get dirty as well, and who is not afraid to break a nail in a friendly game of touch football. I want someone that wants to be emotionally and physically pampered, and who is willing to return the same thing to me. You know, it is called give and take in a relationship.She has to like candles and cuddling in bed, and not afraid to show affection in public. Is this you? Please reply with a photo since you have seen mine already. PLUS, If you are looking for new friends to do things with, Im open to that . Please be healthy and take care of yourself. I belong to a gym and use it. I am not looking for a sedentary woman. I dont mean to be superficial and crass, but if you are not in decent shape please do not reply. Also, if you live out side the US, Please speak English well. I am not looking for a mail order bride, or an ID card chaser,so thank you for playing. It will just be nice to have friends to talk to while I am gone since I really dont have a family anymore. Thank you to all that support us overseas. Im currently in Iraq and have a hard time answering on the computer here. Id love pen pals while I am here, and people to just remind me what home is, since this DEFINATELY isnt it. Thank you for reading and I hope to hear from you soon

Appearance
height:5’ 8” (172.7 cms)
eyes:Brown
hairark brown
body type:Athletic and toned
body art:No Answer
best feature:Eyes

Interests for fun:
I am an adrenaline junkie. Anything that I can do to enhance my heart rate and get my blood pumping is my speed. From skydiving to swimming with sharks for fun. If it is a rush, you will find me there. favorite hot spots: Key West, Florida is the place I want to be. I lived there 2 years and a part of me stayed there when I was tranferred out. I still go back regularly to see all my friends and dive the waters.
sense of humor:Clever: Nothing’s better than a quick-witted comeback
sports and exercise:No Answer
common interests:No Answer
favorite NBA team:No Answer
Lifestyle
exercise habits:Exercise regularly
daily diet:Keep it healthy
smoke:No Way
drink:No Answer
jobolitical / Govt / Civil Service / Military
income:$50,001 to $75,000
my place:No Answer
have kids:Not that I know of
want kids:Not sure
pets: I have:No Answer
I don't have, but likeogs, Fish, Reptiles, Birds, Exotic pets,

As of July 17, 2006 this is what I found. 1Oceanlover4u 34-year old, Miami Fl...Is this Phil? You decide. - OOOPS! I guess he got deleted again!

Bullsh*t Phil!

I have to laugh every time I read this!

June 01, 2004
FreFallGuy106912 [9:32 PM]: so how does that make him a cheater
RhoadwarriorNV [9:32 PM]: never mind
FreFallGuy106912 [9:32 PM]: oh well i am in augusta now. not a big city here
FreFallGuy106912 [9:32 PM]: i hope things work out
RhoadwarriorNV [9:32 PM]: yeah, thanks
FreFallGuy106912 [9:33 PM]: can i ask you something though
RhoadwarriorNV [9:33 PM]: yes.
FreFallGuy106912 [9:34 PM]: my wife tried that same cheating crap on me and i wasnt doing anything. what gives women the idea or the fear that we cheat on them even when we are not
RhoadwarriorNV [9:35 PM]: Well, Mike, it's the information he doesn't give me that makes me wonder
FreFallGuy106912 [9:36 PM]: what does he do
RhoadwarriorNV [9:36 PM]: So how's GA? Is it raining?
FreFallGuy106912 [9:36 PM]: it it humid here
RhoadwarriorNV [9:36 PM]: oh, he sells shit to people
RhoadwarriorNV [9:36 PM]: what do you do?
FreFallGuy106912 [9:37 PM]: sells shit. you mean like a manure dealer. we have one of those that lives near us down the road
RhoadwarriorNV [9:38 PM]: yup, back woods kind of stupid dumb ass, that sells, tons of it to sell to people. Not a very good job, but his bills are paid
FreFallGuy106912 [9:38 PM]: this guys lives large. he sells to all the farms around the area and they are going to build another house sometime soon
RhoadwarriorNV [9:39 PM]: So, time to come clean. Why does your profile say Phil, but you told me your name is Mike??? More BS?
FreFallGuy106912 [9:40 PM]: i never knew a man could make a living off manure
RhoadwarriorNV [9:41 PM]: well if he sells enough of it to people, they'll buy anything
RhoadwarriorNV [9:41 PM]: so, tell me about your wife?
FreFallGuy106912 [9:41 PM]: what. this came on when this kinkos computer came on. i have no idea wht it even is. then you came on. im just trying to get a spreadsheet done. my computer is in the kids room and they are asleep
FreFallGuy106912 [9:42 PM]: so it was either not get my work done for the morning or come here at midnight and work. so i decided the job was worth more than a little lost sleep
RhoadwarriorNV [9:42 PM]: so, how did you get this e-mail address if you're at Kinko's? It times out after each use and you have to use a credit card
FreFallGuy106912 [9:43 PM]: oh im a co worker here
FreFallGuy106912 [9:43 PM]: i work here during the days and we have our own access cards
RhoadwarriorNV [9:43 PM]: well, the e-mail address belongs to my husband and you're illegally using it
FreFallGuy106912 [9:44 PM]: so i have a customer thing that has to be done. im not computer saavy at all. im just putting number in boxes
FreFallGuy106912 [9:44 PM]: then it gets made into a slide for an overhead
FreFallGuy106912 [9:45 PM]: illegally using. you make a lot of assumptions. i didnt know this was on here

- During this e-mail, I called the only Kinkos in Agusta, GA. The person at the Kinkos told me there was a guy that fit Phil's description at the computers... Yup, Phil sells sh*t.....

FREEDOM IS NOT FREE

Currently, you can purchase an official-looking citation for virtually ANY military award, have your name imprinted on it, hang it on your wall and even include a copy of it in your resume, without violating the law.

A Purple Heart?
False military documents were produced in my annulment court trial and the recent Florida hearing to "elude" to Phil's career... he was trying to present documents stating he was honorably released from duty and to receive a Purple Heart... 

Oh, yes, he even applied for a Purple Heart and asked his Congressmen to help speed up the process.

I've heard stories that Phil is currently presenting the Purple Heart application form and a store bought sticker and medal to his employers and others in an attempt for them to believe that he has earned a Purple Heart... anyone can apply for one, if they served. Phil was flatly refused a Purple Heart since he didn't see any combat and he certainly didn't do anything or have any war related injuries to earn one.

However, in 2005 Glenna Whitley reported seeing a Purple Heart tag on Phil's license plate in NC... Phil still refused to remove the tag and was recently spotted by a private investigator in Florida with the Purple Heart tag! How disgraceful!

It really irks me that Haberman can claim he earned a Purple Heart medal and order this pin from the internet and continue to con women with his "wounded Soldier" act and legally get away with doing so.

Haberman is another reason why the Stolen Valor Act needs to be passed - to punish liars such as Haberman that disgrace our fallen troops.

I recently received an e-mail from a very distraut woman who Haberman conned, was now stating Haberman was wounded during a mortar attack... another version of the RPG story??? A very incorrect story!

As I've posted before, Haberman was never injured in Iraq. When will his lies end?

Thomas "The Irritated Vet" and Greensickle said it best when they describe Haberman as a "urnial cake"... Haberman hates that description of him... and the "stone sucking maggot" description (wonder who gave him that name?) Too bad Phil if the truth hurts!

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