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EXPOSING THEM: INTERVENTION or ATTACK?
hateMistaken by a narcissist as an attack.
A predator/ narcissist is complicated but simultaneously transparent when confronted with exposure of their motives.
They are always about the next fix, so if a situation becomes difficult and they find that it is not making them feel good they will blame shift and start looking for the next target. They will never admit and are incapable of realizing that 110% they did it to themselves!
Next time they will be more careful not to get caught or figured out. And the next target gets to be on the receiving end of the heightened game.
But what if they have been EXPOSED?
The script has to change now. What does that mean?
Effort. Now they have to work harder to keep up the lie. Reputation, ego, image, humiliation. Now their avenues for prey have been depleted downward.
Now the blame shifting has become their only weapon. Make it the other person's fault, but don't stop there. Do it up big. Make themselves the victim . Turn it around and play the "poor me" card.
Always notice that at no point do they think about who they hurt, stop to feel bad about the pain they caused someone else or see that they need to STOP and realize that if it has gotten this bad, it is time to reevaluate themselves and get help. No, narcissists are incapable of this moment of self awareness.
Even though its time to wake up and THINK!
But this doesn't happen because in their eyes they are superior to everyone. Oh, they may apologize to the wife/husband/partner - but those they preyed on? Well its THEIR fault isn't it?
Then they keep finding outlets, ways to escape reality.
Being Exposed is an Intervention. Our Intervention for them. And they will only see it as a full frontal attack.
The way they respond confirms the truth that's exposed all by itself.
(here's a perfect example of how one exposed predator responded to their intervention)
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